True Friend

True Friends will be there to pick you up when you fall , true friends Give there shirt of there back and don't ask for it to be returned.

A true friend will tell you what you need to hear not what you want to hear, But lie about your life to every one around you at that current moment(playing the victim) and you will have people telling you what you want to hear. Making your feeling better about yourself and never learning from the mistakes that you made or feeling bad for doing whats been done to that other person , It makes the other person out to be the bad guy in the former relationship , and you "play the victim", you will convince your self that what IS a true lie, to you in your mind  is  the truth, they say- if you tell your self something that isn't true enough times , you truly start believing it to be factual. True friends will not care what you did or what was done to you. they will help stand you back up and continue life and if so stear you in the better direction. True friends will pick up where you left off the last time you saw them whether it be a year , a day, a month or a century .

      Michael W. Smith Wrote a song back in 1990 Called:

"Friends" the lyrics of the course go like this

"And friends are friends forever If the Lord's the Lord of them And a friend will not say never 'Cause the welcome will not end Though it's hard to let you go In the Father's hands we know That a lifetime's not too long To live as friends"

" friends are friends for ever" , if the lord is the Lord of them'  This means that if God is truly in and around the friendship you we be able to look past  all your faults , your mistakes , whatever you did or what has been done to you. "And a friend will not say never" meaning is this , true friends will be there to pick you up when you fall , give the shirt of there  back and not ask for it back.

Proverbs 22:24-27

Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare. Be not one of those who give pledges, who put up security for debts. If you have nothing with which to pay, why should your bed be taken from under you?

The Way it should be

God designed intimacy only for after marriage, for a man and women to experience a intimate connection for the first time . Which is meant to hold them to each others Heart, Body, and Soul for the rest of their lives . As two Virgins come together, As the bible so instructs, A passionate love for each other , a healthy addiction for only that other person , a rich love poured into each others souls , a passionate desire for "Only One Person" for the One Man or Women God designed and created for you to be with. God never Intended for man and women to have premarital Sex and yet our society has taken "it", run it through the trenches, and absolutely Distorted it into what it shouldn't be .

We as a civilization Have made it into a game , Men have taken it and used it as how many "notches on the belt", "use it as a rebound", women have turned into a profit on the street corner  etc... , business owners have turned it into Entertainment,  the movie industry has created a multiple  billion dollar industry, TV networks and cartoon networks have salted kids and adult shows with the advertisement of sex, food industries have turned there food and beverage commercial into what they call "sex sells" . Its absolutely disgusting what our society and civilization have turned sex into. God designed it to be beautiful between a married man and a married women NOTHING ELSE .....